Knowing A Divorce is inevitable,how can I tell her .....?Urgent advices heeded .Thanks?

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I have had done lots of soul searching for the past 8 months on my marriage.The big mistake i made was I wasnt frank enough to tell her the truth.I lied i to her i was financially stabled to settle down.In reality, I took up a bank loan (12k)which she did not know.Things turned bad after the 1st yr after I was retrenched.I wasnt able to pay the bank.She later came to know this after calls from bank.It was purely my mistake to lie to her.We communicate very little at all since.I knew then the "trust" was long gone.

Since the retrenchment ,it still took me 8 months to get a job.I basically kept thinking and blaming myself and went into depression It.At the same time, i gave lots of time to think abt my marriage.Many ppl incuding my mother in law had commented i was useless as compared to her 2nd daughter's husband(an IT engineer)Divorce is inevitable and can anyone pls advice me the appropriate way?Thanks truly

Knowing A Divorce is inevitable,how can I tell her .....?Urgent advices heeded .Thanks?

Come clean with her, tell her the dirty secrets,If you want a divorce go get a lawyer and get it done. If you don't want a divorce and want to try to get over this tell your wife.... Unfortunately money problems are one of the biggest marriage blowers but if you can work through it and get back to a "normal marriage" you can get through money problems. It can actually make your relationship stronger, but if you can't be honest about the situation that will never work. $12,000 is not that much of a loan or that big of a money problem seriously!!! I had $40,000 of debt credit cards, personal loans but mainly credit cards, my husband and I worked together and are on our way up away from drowning debt...... Talk to your wife, keep your job and work your way up...



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