What would you do in this situation???
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I feel awful typing this but I have a neighbour who is constantly coming to my house at all times of day from 8am - 10pm. Staying for hours at a time. She asks to borrow money, which she never repays, only small amounts though (拢3-拢5). I have loaned about 6 times, now I pretend that I have no money and would have to visit the cash point but can't as the nearest is 3 miles away.
We met when through SureStart I helped to clean up her house as it was filthy and she was at risk of her 2 children being taking into care. (This happened anyway as she didn't keep it clean.)
Also her body odour is awful and I have to spray everywhere after she leaves. I just don't know what to do on this situation as I don't want to hurt her feeling as I am of a caring nature and feel so cruel. She has learning difficulties also and I don't think she understands. I am not qualified to deal with this and am worn out as it is having 4 children with special needs myself (ADHD& Autism.
What would you do?
What would you do in this situation???This may take some time, but it worked for me when I was in a similar situation - I didn't thave any children though so that makes it more difficult for you.
Try joining an appropriate social club with her (there will be some in your area for people with learning disabilites - the local council should be able to tell you about these). You may have to go along a few times with her, but she will soon make other friends there and hopefully will lose interest in you. This way you don't have to appear mean by saying you don't want her around - she makes the decision for herself.
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