If you found your H is cheating,wants you as his deductable, have 8 kids, no money, would you Divorc
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He wants me to sign a loan against our property, sell our new house to clear his debt, but i will still have ccards in my name not cleared. He pays for all bills, Have adhd child, a child who had brain operation at end of may. But i have found very recent cheating for 5 years. would you divorce him? He could very well not give money and disappear , or his child support not cover home bills. I have no education, always home mom, live in state that does not give alimony. what would you do?
If you found your H is cheating,wants you as his deductable, have 8 kids, no money, would you Divorce him?I would divorce him but I think I am a little bit more independent than you are. Don't take that as an insult. You are in a pickle. Eight children, money problems, and a cheating husband. If you have recently found out about his cheating I would not sign any financial aggreements at this time. People are devious and he is devious enough to harm you and the children which has been made evident by his affair/s for numerous years. You may want to look into divorce which will be hard but easier than you think. You will probably be awarded custody and him visitation. Ask yourself before you make that decision do you love him still, do you want this marriage to work, and do you think that you could handle him being with another woman and having a ball while you are left with the responsibility. If you choose to go this route you need to remember that you are worth more than you give yourself credit for. You are educated. You did not give birth to eight children and not learn anything or become knowledgable about something. You can also recieve help from the government to send you to school for a degree. You would qualify without a doubt because of the children and lack of money. You would also qualify for food stamps, welfare, cheap housing, help with utilities, and endless resources. I know that welfare does not appeal to most people but if you are determined to better your life and education it is only temporary. I seriously doubt anyone on here or in the real world would object topaying welfare taxes to help someone that honestly would need the help like yourself. If you choose to stay you need to sign the financial agreement but I would have it looked over by an attorney. Has your husband said that he wanted a divorce or if he wanted to work things out?
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