Does this deserve forgiveness?

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I have been living and sharing expenses with the same person for over three years and have discovered banking activity for just her. I first asked if what she used the account for and she told me she was saving money for a mutual purpose. I asked about the balance and she said she was putting extra money into a loan payment which made automatic deductions ; a savvy savings plan; but not the part that angers me. I searched around and found receipts. A deposit over $3000 was made and at present it is about $400. The deposit was from her selling stock shares. She told me that she got $1000 for the transaction. Then as we discussed it further, a rental property income was deposited into that same account for $1000. Now in my mind that is $4100 that is now unaccounted for.

I had been working overtimethis past summer and all I earned is not in the savings, as we had planned.

I feel hurt, ignorant and resentful for the mismanaging of our money and her lack of honesty. Is this a forgivable?

Does this deserve forgiveness?

From my perspective as a woman, I would seriously think this one over. I feel that if you are living together and sharing expenses for the last 3 years that all finances should be together or at least openly discussed. My fiance and I have been together for almost 10 years now and since year 1 all of our accounts have been together and he has as much access to them as I do and for good reason, because we fully trust one another. I would be very hurt as well in your situation as you don't know where that money went to?? WOW! I think if you are to forgive her that she needs to start talking and honestly...It is NOT too much to ask where that money went. It would be different if you didn't live together and share your expenses, but you are! Also, if she is saving money for a mutual purpose what would be the harm in adding your name to the account as a joint account holder as I did with my fiance?

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Does this deserve forgiveness?

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