Does this deserve forgiveness?
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Ouch! Money is the #1 cause of relationships (marriages or cohabitating partners) dissolving. You have to talk about it. I suspect, she is going to be a bit offended that you were snooping through receipts and such. If you want this relationship to last, be prepared to forgive and start fresh. I would ask her why she feels the need to lie about the amount she has in there. Maybe the heart of the issue is that she doesn't feel you have the same "money ethics". Sounds like she might be more of a spender than you are. In he end it will come down to rather or not you are each willing to make some compromises for the other. A saver and a spender can be a match made in heaven if they balance each other out ;-)
Does this deserve forgiveness?This same thing happened to me. There seems to be a certain break down in communication when it comes to joint accounts. You seem to have the understanding that this account has one goal- which is to save money; while to your partner, this account is an account that money can be readily deposited and debited at thier discretion regardless of consequence.
The best thing to do is to forgive it this time. Make sure your partner knows that this accout is for deposit only. Once money is in, it does not come out unless it is mutually agreed upon.
If worse comes to worse, take your name off the account. Then, your money will not be involved in the decisions being made and your partner will become more concious when its their own money missing.
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