Financial Forgiveness?

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I have been living and sharing expenses with the same person for over three years and have discovered banking activity for just her. I first asked if what she used the account for and she told me she was saving money for a mutual purpose. I asked about the balance and she said she was putting extra money into a loan payment which made automatic deductions ; a savvy savings plan; but not the part that angers me. I searched around and found receipts. A deposit over $3000 was made and at present it is about $400. The deposit was from her selling stock shares. She told me that she got $1000 for the transaction. Then as we discussed it further, a rental property income was deposited into that same account for $1000. Now in my mind that is $4100 that is now unaccounted for.

I had been working overtimethis past summer and all I earned is not in the savings, as we had planned.

I feel hurt, ignorant and resentful for the mismanaging of our money and her lack of honesty. Is this a forgivable?

Financial Forgiveness?

How much do you love her? I believe in our money,your money and my money. My money is none of your business as is your money. Our money is each other business. It sucks however sometimes you have to keep secrets.

Financial Forgiveness?

I understand the no trust issue. Not sure how to advise you on gettingit back. I do know time will tell, it can be forgiving yet her actions will let you know if you can forgive. Report It

Financial Forgiveness?

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