Last night, I hit my husband. How can I make it better?
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My husband and I have been married for a month. Two months ago, we had our first child. Just last week, we were kicked out of our apartment and are now living with my parents because we had nowhere else to go. Neither of us have jobs and he doesn't even have a driver's license.
My husband got a call from an online university late last week and signed up to go to classes without discussing it with me or even mentioning it to me. When I found out, I didn't say anything right away. I waited all day and looked up the tuition. It was over $14,000! He already has over $30,000 in student loan debt and is behind on his child support around $900. I told him we had to go out and get a job-and that he could go to school once he had held a job for 6 months, which he has never done before. I have bipolar disorder with postpartom psychosis. I'm on a waiting list to see a Psychiatrist but I'm not on any medication now. He made me so angry that I hit him. What can I do to make up for it?
Last night, I hit my husband. How can I make it better?You can not make that situation better because it is already passed. You can let it be a reminder to you to choose a different course of action next time. Life is about learning and letting our next actions be guided by what we learned. It is not therapy or medication you need. You need to slow down in your thoughts and actions and make sure that all of your decisions are being made based on one question. What action shows that I love me? If you make your decisions based on loving yourself, you won't hit him because it hurts your heart to do it, you will become less and less selfish because you'll want to see him grow and be happy because it makes you grow and be happy. It will heal your bipolar and take away your after pregnancy blues. You'll find a happiness and a mental/emotional serenity you never thought you had the power to command. It takes practice and it takes being patient with yourself and knowing that patience is also loving yourself. We spend years in school and get out thinking learning is over. School is like religion it just teaches us how to learn and apply what we learn. Step back and look at your situations like a new chapter of lessons and pay attention and do your best with the best intentions from your heart.
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