Ask him for the loan?

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I've been with my guy for 8 months. He's about to get a big $ from his tax return. I'm up to my neck in debt, that he doesn't know about. I've felll victim to payday cash advances that I have to pay $1640 every 2 weeks to...and then take out additional loans to make up for the $. A cycle I've been stuck in after I fell on some financial problems 5 years ago. Should I be honest with him and ask him for the $. It would help me out so much and dig me out of the bottomless debt hole. There is no way I can get out of this hole on my own. I was going to use my return, but I owe this year. I'm so affraid he will see what kind of a mess my finances are and bolt. This is a very big secret I'm keeping from him. I want to be with him for a very long time...and he feels the same about me. I just don't know how to talk to him about it or if I should. Thoughts?

Ask him for the loan?

You should talk to him about your situation, especially if you plan on being with him for a long time. Let him know what has happened and how you have gotten into the mess that you are in and ask him to help you to come up with a plan to get you out of the mess. He may offer to help you on his own. If he doesn't then maybe you could ask for the extra help. Let him know that since you have been talking about staying together long term that you thought it was time to tell him and ask for his guidance in getting out of your situation so that the 2 of you are not starting out under an ugly cloud of payday loan debt.

Ask him for the loan?

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